Time To Move On: 5 Divorce Tips

Time To Move On: 5 Divorce Tips

Date Posted: February 13, 2021 1:22 pm Author: Scott A. Levine

Time To Move On: 5 Divorce Tips

Has your relationship been more stressful than sweet? If it seems like your relationship has seen better days, it may be time to ask the obvious question: Is it best to move on? The biggest mistake people make is staying too long in a relationship that is heading nowhere. If you love yourself and your partner, you owe it to both of you to look the ugly in the eye, be honest with each other, and make a courageous decision that frees you both for what you really long for: A love that actually works.

When is it the right time to give up? There is never the best time but the longer you wait, the harder it will be in the future.

Sign 1: More Hurting less Loving

A happy, healthy love feels good most of the time. Sure, even good relationships include an argument every now and then, but if you feel sad, mad, or anxious more of the time than not, it’s a clear sign this isn’t the right relationship for you.

Sign 2: What You Used to Love is Now Annoying

Opposites attract and in the beginning, they can create hot chemistry. But over time, those differences can breed contempt. So at first, when your outgoing partner was the life of the party, maybe your shy side felt alive, important, and sexy. But now, you find his/her endless energy draining, and his/her flirtatious, extrovert behavior makes you feel insecure. Once the sparks die down, if your fundamental personality differences become the source of constant conflict, realize it isn’t fair to ask either of you to change who you are. Move on to a better fit instead.

Sign 3: You’d Rather Be Somewhere, Anywhere Else

At the start of a romance, you want to be together all of the time. While it’s normal for that to die down to allow back in your other interests, if you find you just feel apathetic about being together, avoiding his calls, or always scheduling some girl time instead, that’s a red flag alert. Apathy about your partner has an even worse prognosis than vicious fighting, because if you are bored and just don’t care anymore, it usually means your connection has run it’s course. Better to part as friends now.

Sign 4: You Keep Having the Same Old Fights

The mark of a relationship that works is being able to resolve conflicts to create a deeper connection. If you keep fighting over the same issues over and over, with very little progress, it’s a clue that a fundamental part of your personalities just isn’t the right match.

Sign 5: You’ve developed a Wandering Eye

When you’re really into your partner, you naturally only have eyes for them. If suddenly your barista is looking sexy, you’re making excuses to talk to the cute co-worker in the next cubicle, or you’ve accepted a lunch offer from your ex, chances are your heart has become curious about new possibilities. By paying attention to the most obvious signs that it’s time to move on, you can honor both yourself and your partner and give both of you the biggest gift of all: The freedom to find a love that’s meant to last.

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